Uncle and his cheesecakes. |
What does Memorial Weekend mean to you? Extra time with the family? A three-day weekend? Eating? Grilling? Fun? Or perhaps remembering others?
My Uncle died eleven years ago on May 15th. Uncle was my Mom’s younger brother. He never married, so when I was a kid, my family was his family. He used to drive up from Throgs Neck to stay with us for weekends and even went on vacations with us.
Uncle was always a lot of fun to be with and acted like a big kid himself until he retired from the railroad.
Uncle had a great sense of humor and loved to tell jokes. He once told my two brothers and I that he had hidden an Easter Egg with five dollars in it at a campground where we were staying. We looked for it at every opportunity. The adults had some peace and quiet and we kids had the thrill of a treasure hunt. He gave us each five dollars, a kings ransom at the time, for the souvenir shop, too.
Uncle was not particularly athletic, but he thought if he had on a team shirt, he would look that way. He had shirts from every team in every sport. He always brought bags of shirts for my kids. It didn’t matter what size the kids were, he thought bigger was better and bought extra large.
My Uncle always arrived at my house with cheesecakes. There would be one for each of us. There could never be too much cheesecake where he was concerned.
My Uncle never mastered the art of balancing a checkbook so he used cash and money orders for just about everything. He kept most of his money hidden around his house. His favorite hiding place was in a hole in his mattress. We were all so upset when he died, that we forgot about that, and threw the mattress, and the money, away.
Uncle had been in the Navy and so at his funeral two crisply dressed Sailors came to pay their respects, play taps, and present my Mom with a folded flag. It was beautiful. I stood there with my Dad, also a sailor, and thought of my son stationed in the Gulf on the Carrier USS John Paul Jones and prayed that I wouldn’t hear that mournful sound again anytime soon.
After the funeral, my mom took care of tidying up the inevitable loose ends of paper work. She paid his last bills, sold his house, and had his mail forwarded to her in Virginia. Sport Illustrated sent him a postcard proclaiming - We Want You Back! Well, yes. Yes, we do.
Like most of us, Uncle will never be written about in a history book. He is remembered by those whose lives he touched.
On Memorial Day we remember those living and dead who sacrificed to give us the freedoms that we enjoy. It is always sobering to reflect on the reality that the liberties we enjoy today came at a great cost.
On Memorial Day, we pause as a nation to express our recognition and to collectively say we won’t forget.It is the soldier, not the preacher,who has given us freedom of religion.It is the soldier, not the reporter,who has given us freedom of the press.It is the soldier, not the poet,who has given us freedom of speech.It is the soldier, not the campus organizer,who has given us freedom to assemble.It is the soldier, not the lawyer,who has given us the right to a fair trial.It is the soldier, not the politician,who has given us the right to vote.
We continually remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ. ~1 Thes. 1:3
Who do you remember on Memorial Day?
8 comments:
a lovely tribute. I always think of memorial day as the first official weekend of summer and I always think of the military, those who are serving and those who served. xo
Thank you for sharing about your favorite Uncle. My uncle Jim was my favorite as he always had a handful of change for us kids. He was single for many years, but finally married his red headed sweet heart and moved in with her and her parents so he could run their farm. Thank you for sharing your sweet story at "Tell Me a Story."
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Donna, what a great tribute to your uncle. He sounds like a fun loving guy. Memorial Day always leads me to thought of my sweet mother, father, and others who have passed on. Visiting their gravesites and telling them how much I love and miss them. Have a wonderful holiday weekend!
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Jann
I know your uncle must have felt very loved by his family. I honor all those who didn't come back. It is a crying shame.
Thank you for sharing at the hop xo
What a beautiful tribute to an obviously much loved man! My bil is serving overseas right now which makes me keenly aware of the sacrifice these men and women make. Thank you for linking up with me last week at Walking Redeemed!
A beautiful tribute! And so fitting for Memorial Day. Thanks for sharing his story.
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